WHAT LEAD TO TEENAGERS ' VIOLENCE?

With a lot of people, teenage is a beautiful and dreamy age with a lot of colorful memory. However, frightening and terrible age is also using for a number of teens in recent years. That is the consequence of violence in high school which is increasing more serious and dangerous. More and more teens tend to use violence, not only beating, punching, pulling hair, they use even sticks, knives to attack their rival. This problem is not self appear, it is the result of the need of expressing of teens, the bad behavior of parents and  the harm from entertainment sources.

First, teenagers use violence to express themselves. Some students express by hard study to reach the high score or by singing, by drawing; in contrast others use strength to make them ‘famous’. They bully classmates, the younger although that people do nothing. Sometimes, someone is beaten causes he or she has an unfamiliar look, a style cloth, mordern hair or with ones do not allow someone to copy their test,etc.  There are thousands of unnomal reasons for using violence of teens. Teenage- the developing age about building, psychology, realization so teens want to learn and discover the new things around them.They want 'make noise', want everybody pay atention to them, want to be admire through horrified. At home teens can be a good child; however they become an absolutely different person at school, society whom a lot of people must be frightened. They are already to use violence with anyone to prove their strongth, their authority.So, it is easy to lose the address if they do not have any direction, teaching from the older. However, some adults are the bad example for teen by killing, harassing for bribes or telling lies. All of that have great affect to teens ;as a result they show that problem through their behavior, their action and violence is one of serious showing. In other word, violence is one way for teens to show their authority.

Behavior of parents is one great factor leads teens ‘violence. According to the last survey of Tuoi Tre newspaper, 63% teens are violent causes by parents. Some teens are violent to 'make noise' with their parents because they are too busy to care and interest to their children .Teens fed of with parents ‘caring way by giving money, without caring their study, their feeling and their thinking. They even think that they are abandoned so they are violent with others to make noise with parents. Therefore, if parents really take care of their children in a right way, violence in their children 'behavior will be considerable decreased. Another cause is self -parents are the violent example which lead their children use violence with others. I have a girl friend, her father is a violent person who always solves problem by using violence, even with her mother and her. In her home, she shows nothing, avoids the violent father and always lives in scared . However, she is a different person who absolutely likes her father when she is in school. She beats the weaker, the younger and feel satisfied for that.She believes that is an effective way for her to take away the weakness as well as to revenge the violent father. Parents normally set an great example for their children; however, some bad parents make children grow up with their bad model. Every parent should behave well to reduce violent bihavior of their children.

Bad entertainment-sources also lead to teens ’violence.  More and more violent films are showed on TV although they are carried out under the governmental control. As a result, violent films gradually come into teens ‘mind and shown by violent action. Besides, game online is aslo causes teens 'violence. Characters in game online kill, fight each other cruelly but a lot of teens take all of their time for playing game. Playing game online too much makes teens themselves want to become those characters. And they show that wish not only in game, but in real life with their friend or even their family. Last month, i am so astonished with a article of  the boy's crime on Tuoi Tre newspaper. Because of not having money to play game, he cruelly killed his mother to steal money.It is shown that bad entertainment sources directly affect to teens 'behavior. In this developing age, teens all want become their idols in film, game but hardly to realize what the right is and what the wrong is. Therefore, a lot of bad characters 'behavior, action cause teen become more violence. Those are typical consequence of bad entertainment-sources leading to teens ’violence.

In short, bad entertainment-sources, parents 'behavior and demand to express themselves cause teens's violent behavior.Knowing these causes helps parents, teachers can prevent violence of their children.Do not let little children lose their address and become bad, violent people.